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Refresh and try again. Open Preview See a Problem? Details if other :. Thanks for telling us about the problem. Return to Book Page. Klod Stajner se godinama bavi psihologijom emocija i razvio je trening emocionalne pismenosti. Get A Copy. Paperback , pages. Published by Psihopolis institut first published October 2nd More Details Original Title.
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A shorter book would reach more people which seems to be the author's purpose. At the risk of sounding redundant , I really , really liked this book. Though I couldn't agree with several of his points , I found the 15 emotionally literate transactions captivating. That may sound like an aggrandized statement , but what I found captivating is that those principles are what I long for in relationships.
I more often than not feel people prefer a safe shallow relationship and I'm always searching for something deeper. I'm not referring to romantic relationships exclusively At the risk of sounding redundant , I really , really liked this book.
I'm not referring to romantic relationships exclusively , in general that's how I would prefer to operate. It was captivating to read a book about a person who has spent his life in pursuit of the very same thing : Recommended to people having relationship troubles , it's not your common everyday communication book nor is it a relationship repair book. Just basic points of genuine human needs. This is a self-help book on what it means to be emotionally literate and how to become so.
Copy write , ISBN The subject is not a foreign concept to Steiner, but deeply personal, as he grew up completely emotionally illiterate. Steiner has been highly influenced by a psychiatrist named Eric Berne who developed Transactional Analysis. His narration usually takes the form of scripted storytelling, showing the reader how different conversations could play out and why. Steiner also implements series of exposition, usually presenting case studies or collected data, backing his reasoning.
Steiner took a rarely seen approach to honesty in relationships. Steiner believes complete honesty is vital to relationship because even the most minor discrepancy often causes extreme emotional turmoil to the other party down the road, especially if they found out the truth from someone other than their partner.
I think the basic concepts Steiner teaches in his classic story, the warm fuzzies and cold pricklies, remains the same. However, the American and European population has clearly become even more emotionally illiterate.
The book fails to give any suggestions to someone in the situation where they are the only member interested in taking on the fifteen emotional transactions, stating that this program is best done in a group of cooperative and supportive group.
The authors main topics were; emotional awareness, training to be emotionally literate, opening the heart , surveying the emotional landscape, the mistakes we make and why we make them and taking responsibility. Emotional awareness, discussed in chapter 2, can be pictured by a scale. At the bottom of the scale is zero awareness, a dangerous place to be. At the top of the scale, is of course percent awareness, something few achieve. In between those two are ranges, anything from numbness to physical sensations, empathy to interactivity.
Hear Steiner points out that our thoughts can trigger our emotions but cannot seem to shut them off, which is why it is important to have the knowledge and skills to move up the scale.
That is where the training to be emotionally literate comes into play. Steiner covers these in small steps; opening the heart, surveying the emotional landscape, the mistakes we make and why we make them and taking responsibility. Taking responsibility for our mistakes is important if we want to receive forgiveness from others for the injuries our mistakes may cause.
Steiner is quick to point out that sometimes the hurt is so deep that the other person will choose to never forgive. We also learn from our mistakes so it is vital to be aware of them and seek opportunity in the future to correct them.
Emotional literacy is an important aspect to being a mature well rounded person, at least equal to that of your Intelligence Quotient. I think Steiner proved his thesis; emotional literacy can be learned through the practice of specific transactional exercises that target the awareness of emotion in ourselves and others, the capacities to love others and ourselves while developing honesty and the ability to take responsibility for our actions. However, in this particular book those things are few and far in between.
If you are after a quality read that will help to understand emotion processes during interactions better, then you will like the book very much.
It also gives a new perspectives on how to approach a misunderstanding and how to effectively resolve a conflict. I am su 4 stars because with this type of books, there is always something that doesn't resonates with me or I wouldn't do something in the exact way it is suggested. I am sure I will get back to it for a second read at some point.
Definitely worth reading it. And not to forget, I absolutely loved the Philosopher's notes at the end of the book. It gives a concise overlook of certain concepts mentioned throughout the book, and it is a nice touch that only increase the already high quality of this reading.
Your emotions Try to compare your thoughts with these of the clinical psychologist and transactional analyst. Believe me you will find it very useful and a great fun. For achieving emotional power you will take into account and agree with the point of view of the author or maybe not But the book is very kind and full of Love I have to, I need to read this book once a year for the rest of my life. An essential self improve book for each human being. Aug 14, Tanja rated it really liked it Shelves: psychology-psychotherapy.
Very useful self-teaching book about emotional literacy, fighting our Critical Parent or its funny synonym "The Pig Parent" , about empathy, selflessness etc. Actually, it is possible for anyone to adopt some basic rules explained in the book.
The only thing I see as a problem, at least in my society, is the fact that these skills and behavior should be trained in larger groups at work, in your house, with your children It takes a lot of time, but it is worth trying. Marija Matic rated it it was amazing Apr 11, Ivan rated it it was amazing Mar 05, Hamideh Iraj rated it liked it Aug 19, Valerie rated it really liked it Aug 26, Srdjan Sobin rated it it was amazing Nov 07, Vesna rated it it was amazing Feb 15, Karen Porter rated it it was amazing Apr 01, Kurtjak rated it it was amazing Jun 15, Zorana Brankovic rated it it was amazing Aug 05, Jana rated it it was ok Jul 21, Ljubica rated it it was amazing Oct 19, Vanesa rated it really liked it Feb 24, Deconstructing Marie rated it liked it Sep 23, Prometheus rated it really liked it Feb 18, Ninamaria Pinheiro rated it it was amazing Apr 15, Elen rated it really liked it Aug 09, Bobby Jones rated it really liked it May 16,
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